If there are five “must haves” such as humor, compassion, motivation, spontaneous, cultured and he has three out of five, the temptation is to settle. * We think we can teach a dog how to speak. Every day, we have the opportunity to meet a hundred people if we want to. It’s irrational to think that you will die alone given the population of the world today. I’d rather be a median waged person with a loved one than be a lonely billionaire in the long run. Life isn’t worth living if there’s nobody special to share it with. Those who ask for promotions get promotions. You don’t deserve to be mistreated or taken advantage of ever! You deserve to have someone love you back as much as you love them. This is utterly disappointing and ludicrous. Above all else, I believe that the reason why we settle for someone suboptimal is because we believe we aren’t deserving of more. “ I don’t know what I was thinking“, is a phrase that always comes up. In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. Unfortunately, no matter how hard she tries, she can’t teach a gorilla how to put down the toilet seat, pay for dinner, and write her sweet notes of nothing. As we are generally all optimists, a woman believes she can salvage the relationship and change him for the better. Her “ oh, shit” moment comes at a time after she’s given everything to him. It might take one week, or it might take many months, but until a consummation is made, guys can be very charming! By the time a woman hooks up with the guy, only afterward will she see his true colors. Obviously, he will be on his best behavior during the wooing process. He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions. My theory is that in the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser. What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change? If you hate your job, get laid with a nice severance check in hand! There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly. Settling for a deadbeat loser is like settling for a job you hate. Reasons Why Women Go Out With Deadbeat Losers Then agin, deadbeat losers are everywhere. It’s just so weird that with a male world population of 3.5+ billion, a woman would settle for a deadbeat loser. Yet, these women still latch on, hoping they’ll one day change their man for the better. There are countless posts online where women complain about their deadbeat boyfriends for never paying for anything, never buying them gifts, always playing video games all day long while still living at home in their parent’s basement, and never holding on to a job for more than a year to save their lives. The question some people have is: why do women go out with deadbeat losers? But, if you put us on a leash, we’ll gnaw it off and go even more crazy once we’re free. There’s a fine balance between loving your man and smothering your man. If you give us an inch, we’ll take a mile.
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